Why do we fall in love?

Falling in love is a magical feeling that is very hard to explain, its unique and complicated making it a very mysterious thing. A professor is exploring the dynamics why to people fall in love. People is motivated to seek love because we want to expand ourselves and increase our effectiveness. In order to get this is to have a relationship to other people. We like to feel that we have an ability to be an effective person to others, commonly in our relationships. Admit it or not that we fall in love with a person that is attractive in our perception and appropriate for us, but this not comes alone, we can also fall in love if the person that you are attracted to also demonstrates that they are also attracted to us. This makes us think that we have a great opportunity is open to us for self-expansion. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration! Contrary for most people think, statistics show that most people fall in love to the person that they have known for quite a while. This is the interesting part, if you are very unattractive, it can hurt you in relationships, however, according to studies being that much attractive doesn't help that much. They have found out that kindness and intelligence are extremely big factors in falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to this things. Kindness and intelligence are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is a good aspect in life and especially in love, but kindness is the most strongest aspect in a long term relationship.